05.09.09 went to church around 7plus to catch this movie. "FIREPROOF"
nice show. you should watch it. a christian show actually. about marriage. aiya. i don't know how to summarise. SO!! FOR MORE INFO,visit: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fireproof_(2008_film)
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&& ya. i've learn from this show that .. we should never leave your partner behind. && we must not follow our heart BUT LEAD our heart. nowadays people like to follow their heart,& you see! follow their heart until like that. && also to guys, a woman is like a rose. if you treat them well,they'll bloom. but if you doesn't care about them, they'll wither.
YUP! and as i've promise! i blog about the BGR thingy (: (on christian's perspective) 6CS principle to BGR:
1.CAUTION ->songs of songs: WE SHOULD NOT AROUSE LOVE. -misunderstanding happens due to modern technologies(eg.sms) & wrong signals.
2.CHRIST-LIKENESS ->MATT 22:29-30: KNOW THE REALITY OF 'EVERLASTING LOVE' PS.'everlasting love' will not happen. *MANS ROLE - to lead & protect take intiative set spiritual direction *WOMAN'S ROLE - support counter suggest
STEPS TOWARDS CHRIST-LIKENESS 1)couple reads Bible together 2)Memorise scriptures together 3)Read God Books together 4)Dicuss spiritual issues together 5)pray together 6)Talk to older couples 7)serve together
3.CHOOSING ->Eph:5 :BGR IS A REFLECTION -DO not choose a non-christian 1)dangers to missionary datings (non-christian & christan tgt) BUT do not merely choose any christians out of desperation. 2)Maturity & Personalities Compatibility. -Mr/Mrs right DOES NOT EXISTS.
4.COMMUNICATION ->1Cor13:1 :TO LOVE IS TO COMMUNICATE 1)clear all assumption 2)Clear misunderstanding 3)Spell expectations honestly 4)Practice Humility 5)No secrets
5.COMMITMENT ->Eph5:31 :One flesh theory 1)Bearing Inconvenience 2)Bearing wrongs - history must be F9! cos we mustn't blame your partner past or anything. 3)Bears all things - physically or family backgrounds. 4)bearing responsibility
6.CEASING ->MATT 19:3-6 :MARRIAGE IS A LIFE TO DEATH COMMITMENT married couples: -contented -grow deeper by practicing CHRIST-LIKENESS,COMMUNITCATION,COMMITMENT but BGR is not but ... Ceasing. -not EXCUSE OF FLIRTING -not an escape route -painful but real -Failure is NOT THE END!
*THE END* some of you may think this may not concerns you BUT think again.. does it not concerns you next time.?
